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Patience helps us accept or tolerate disappointments, problems, or suffering without becoming upset. I also see patience as essential to surrendering and trusting the Universe that all will be okay. Things happen in Divine time, not our timetable. 


It was not always easy for me to be patient. When I was younger, I achieved many things. My spiritual path was not as deep back then, and I frequently assumed I was the powerhouse making everything happen. I put pressure on myself to accomplish more and often said 'yes' to projects that I later realized I didn't want to do or didn't have the time to complete. If I had been willing to slow down and trust the spiritual guidance desperately trying to get my attention, I would have learned the 'patience lesson' much sooner.


Relinquishing my role as the driver of my life has brought a profound sense of relief and peace. I've come to love the fact that I'm not in control. My practice now includes waiting for guidance, however long that may take. Messages and guidance from the spirit world can come in many ways. I tend to process through feeling. Usually, I will receive a completely unexpected message, which is my way of knowing it is a Spirit Guide message rather than my intuition. As I am receiving the message, there is a moment when I feel my Spirit Guide's presence. I give myself time to fully process the message and understand what Spirit wants me to do.


My recently broken right thumb has brought many patience lessons.  It's a jolt to tell a writer they can't write until the injury has completely healed. I wasn't too concerned when the doctor said I only needed to wear the cast for three weeks. Later, I discovered I would have three more weeks of wearing a splint. After my 3rd X-ray, the time for the splint increased to three more weeks when I was out in public. The doctor said I could start writing again but must take frequent breaks; I consider that a win.


Initially, the primary spirit lesson was to rest, relax, and not participate in a writing project until my thumb healed. Spirit spoke up when I learned the doctor wanted to limit my activities for an additional month.  At the beginning of this week, I received an early morning message telling me I needed to change my daily schedule because it was time to be more active and committed to healing our planet.


Back in the fall of 2020, when I began writing my teaching memoir, my Spirit Guides insisted I have a session with a psychic. I resisted the idea until the millennium woman who encouraged me to write my book contacted me, raving about a psychic reading she had in Oaxaca.  I realized Spirit was trying to get my attention, so I contacted the psychic. I already knew most of what she told me. However, there was new information that took me entirely by surprise. She said the idea of safety for our planet was grounded inside me. She also told me my healing frequency is so powerful that it is difficult to describe. 


What she told me next was mind-altering. She saw a dark entity in my belly. She said the entity looked like a scorpion or spider, affecting my throat and mouth energy. It has kept me using a filter rather than being in my truth. This dark energy makes me feel unseen, not appreciated or understood. She said the dark entity was affecting my spiritual gifts and abilities. 


As she was talking, my Spirit Guides gave me a nudge that it was Roberto, the shaman I met in Ecuador, who placed the entity in my belly after the massacre in ancient Egypt. It was his way of protecting me so that there would not be a repeat of what happened in the ancient Egyptian lifetime, which was a genocide of almost everyone who came from the Wise One's dimension.


When I had a session with Eduardo, the shamanic curandero I work with in Mexico, my mother had just died. Eduardo agreed with me that it was Roberto who put the black entity inside me. He said the minute my mother died and left her body, the dark entity was spontaneously removed. 


Witnessing my growth since the entity has been gone has been truly awe-inspiring. All my wisdom, knowledge, abilities, and powers have returned. I get stronger every day. The shift is often so dramatic that I think, "Wow, I am not the same person I was yesterday." Fueled by my spiritual growth, this transformation fills me with inspiration and hope for the future.


The most shocking of the psychic's visions was when she told me I could heal the world by myself. The catch is that it would take everything out of me to do it, and I would pass on to another dimension.  If I could do something to heal the world, I would do it in a heartbeat. My only concern was my son—would he feel I abandoned him? Fortunately, he has come a long way since 2020, even telling me he was ready to become a healer last year.  I have recalled numerous past lives I have had with my son, so I feel confident we will find each other again. 


When Eduardo and I initially talked about me healing the planet, we both felt Spirit would let me know when it was time and tell me exactly what to do. So, when I got the message this week that the time for action was getting close, I immediately knew I wanted to talk to Eduardo.


A Spirit Guide appeared and told us the assignment had changed. Instead of healing the planet alone, Spirit wants me to invite ALL SACRED BEINGS to join me in lighting up the world with sacred music. She said my role in this assignment is crucial, stressing that the time is NOW—there is no more time to wait for signs. This assignment aims to counter the dark energy in the world and raise and sustain the sacred energy here on our planet. 


In addition to gathering all the sacred beings, I am reaching out to people here on Earth who are committed to their spiritual practice. Anyone who has had a healing with me probably has a sacred music playlist I prepared. If you are not still actively listening to them, it is time to recommit and make it a part of your daily life. I am also considering commissioning a special sacred music sound immersion piece for this assignment. 


Please listen to uplifting sacred music that makes you happy,  peaceful, and spiritually aligned. You want these feelings for yourself, your loved ones, and the world.  Moving your body to the music will be even more powerful.  Spirit wants you to feel optimistic about your future and the future of our world. Let your joy permeate everything you do. See the power of sound creating a balance for everything in the Universe. Know in your heart that the darkness will no longer be able to survive.


Trusting the patience process.

I am a big believer in baby steps. If having patience causes you to feel anxious, stressed, or other negative emotions, be gentle with yourself. Initially, challenge yourself to be patient for one day at a time. If necessary, start with shorter waiting periods, like waiting to reply to a message or to eat a treat. Eventually, you will realize that it has become second nature for you. You will build increased tolerance for discomfort and strengthen your self-control.


If you are struggling, remind yourself of the lessons your patience will bring you.  Embrace the learning opportunities. You can also ask yourself, "In a week, month, or years from now, will this matter to me?" Allow yourself to feel curious rather than stressed.  If you are anxious, naming what you are feeling helps create distance. Be sure to use "I" statements, like "I am feeling frustrated" (which indicates that the feeling is temporary) rather than just saying "I am frustrated" (which sounds like you are saying "I am a frustrated person"). Remind yourself these are temporary thoughts and feelings. 


Tools for your progress.

You want to pay attention to when you are patient and when you are not. Journaling is a great way to dig deeper and understand your thoughts, feelings, and reactions more clearly. Use visualization techniques to see yourself successfully handling a frustrating situation. Repeat a calming mantra phrase like "This too shall pass" or "I choose calm." I love the phrase, "I live my life with grace and ease." Make affirmations for yourself about patience, and read them daily.


The benefits of being patient. 

  • It is easier to remain calm and grounded.  

  • Increases your satisfaction and emotional well-being.

  • Strengthens your ability to resist temptations and delay gratification. 

  • It enhances your ability to think more clearly and make wiser choices rather than acting impulsively.

  • Patient people cope better with setbacks and bounce back more effectively from challenges.

  • Patience helps you listen better, respond more thoughtfully, and avoid escalating conflicts.

  • Friends, partners, and coworkers feel safer and more valued when you're not easily irritated or reactive.

  • Patience makes room for understanding others' perspectives.

  • Patient leaders inspire trust, manage crises better, and motivate others without pressure or panic.

  • Less time wasted on frustration and emotional reactivity means more focus and consistent progress.

  • Patience is key to pursuing big goals, managing setbacks, and building sustainable success.

  • Patience aligns with acceptance and presence, making it easier to live in the moment.


Your help is needed now.

Please join me in this spiritual assignment to bring joy, happiness, and peace through sacred sound and movement. Share this with family and friends. Together, we can counter the dark energy in the world and raise and sustain the sacred energy here on our planet.


I will send you information on the customized sound immersion when available. In the meantime, here is one of my favorite joyful sacred music playlists. I listened to it while writing this blog; my body moved to the rhythm of the music. At one point, I was inspired to stop writing, get up, and do a full-body dance.


KODO: taiko drums; Heart/Beat KODO 25th Anniversary


The world is at a tipping point. In addition to joining me on this project, please let me know what else you need from me. More intuitive shamanic energy sessions? Life Coaching sessions? Online classes? What topics would you like me to cover in my future blog musings and online courses?


And one last thing—a funny side note to the Spirit Guide message.                                        

At one point, Eduardo said, "She is saying something that hopefully makes sense to you because I don't understand it. She said you need to change your shoes." I burst out laughing—I have had several falls in the past 1.5 years and recently realized almost no tread was left on my shoes. So, I bought new sandals and a pair of tennis shoes. But, sometimes, I wear my old tennis shoes with some tread left.  The Spirit Guide was adamant that I heed her advice, so she again told Eduardo I needed to change my shoes.  I had not communicated with Eduardo in quite a while; he was unaware of my falls.  The two warnings got my attention, and I will give away my two remaining pairs of old shoes. 


Peace & Blessings,

Chloe

 
 
 




Many are familiar with the idea of non-attachment, a concept for living your life without being emotionally attached to people, places, things, situations, or outcomes in your life. Like many of my life lessons, I understood it intellectually way before I emotionally embraced it. I loved the concept, but could not quite figure out how to make my non-attachment permanent.


There was not one magical day where I had an ‘aha’ moment, and my life changed instantaneously. Instead, it was a continuous process of reminding myself to not be attached to any outcomes. I would do my best, but many times would fall back into wanting to be in charge.  Over time, with lots of practice, my non-attachment is now automatic. This has been true for many of my spiritual lessons. Once I can emotionally fully grasp it, the lesson is learned.


You may have heard of non-attachment as a Buddhist tradition.  It is about letting go of perceived suffering that is created when we cling to certain outcomes, people, places, or expectations about what we think should happen.


If you believe your happiness and well-being depends on certain outcomes, it creates stress when you don’t meet your goals. Expectations can cause us to feel disappointed, stressed and unworthy if we fall short. This can have an effect on you, both emotionally and physically. Feelings of fear about losing something and getting stuck in a worry loop are common consequences of being attached to your life going a certain way.


By letting go of control, and instead going with the flow, it is much easier to remain in the present moment.  Letting go of your expectations and living a more fluid authentic life increases your peace and resilience.  Not focusing on the past or worrying about the future lessens anxiety.


Non-Attachment Tips

  • Learn to accept the reality of what is currently happening.

  • Let go of your expectations and learn to embrace unexpected outcomes.

  • Acknowledge your resilience each time you bounce back easily.

  • Become aware of which areas you are attached to certain outcomes: People? Places? Things? Activities?

  • What patterns show up in your life when you don’t get the outcome you desire—Anger? Worry? Disappointment? Victimhood?

  • If you catch yourself attached to a certain expectation, observe those thoughts and feelings, and then let them go.

  • Realize and accept change and uncertainty is inevitable.

  • Focus on gratitude, appreciating what you do have, not on what is missing.

  • Try to stay neutral.

  • Take baby steps; build upon each success.

  • Focus on the journey, not the outcome.

  • Be more compassionate with yourself and others.

  • Find a meditation practice that works for you.

  • Understand that non-attachment is not indifference; it allows you to love and care without being consumed.

  • Be patient with yourself. Don’t let setbacks affect you negatively.

  • Find a healthy balance.


When you are able to stay non-attached, you are reminded there are other opportunities and possibilities. Although you may experience a bit of disappointment, you are able to move on, remaining open for what life brings you.  By practicing these principles, you will notice less anxiety and stress and more inner peace to live a loving authentic life.


I recently have had some amazing opportunities show up. Before becoming non-attached, I would have quickly become anxious about my ability to take advantage of these opportunities. Instead, I became genuinely excited to see where my actions would take me.


Last week I was walking my dog. Completely unexpectedly, my Spirit Guides gave me an idea for a new book. I immediately realized it was a great idea. Ironically, I was talking with an agent in a few hours. My old self would have felt I was not ready to present the book idea to the agent. After all, they usually want to see a 25-page book proposal.  This time I told myself I would sit with the idea and decide in the moment if I should mention it to the agent.


I took a big leap of faith and mentioned it. They LOVED it!  Recognizing how timely the book would be, they expressed wanting to get the book out as soon as possible.  Wow!  I was amazed how quickly everything was falling into place.


Actually, I have had an extraordinary amount of  “good things happening” recently. Back in the beginning of January, my twin flame’s Soul Body came when I was experiencing a sound healing and activated something in me.  The next day his Soul Body showed up at my house. I am clear that since he is in a different relationship this lifetime, his soul has chosen to help me heal the world on a soul level. It is like we are working together—just not physically. I think whatever he activated at the sound healing has been opening Divine doors for me.


Shortly after my twin flame appeared, an opportunity to be interviewed by a large spiritual group opened up. They have interviewed many world-renown spiritual healers and leaders, and I feel honored to be included. I am not sure when I will be interviewed.


Both of these opportunities are amazing! Happy to be able to say I am not attached to the outcome of either one of them. Would I be disappointed if I don’t have the interview, or the new book is not picked up by a publisher? Yes, but the difference is that my disappointment would be a brief experience for me; not a stressful devastation. I fully surrendered to the Spirit world years ago.  I completely trust that what is supposed to happen in my life will appear. I no longer have to control it or “make it happen”—I know what is meant for me will arrive and thrive.


On a more practical note, writing another book will take a lot of my time. When I wrote WISDOM KEEPER, I kept a 4 am - 4 pm schedule. Not sure yet what my writing schedule will be, but I am prepared that it will affect the number of healings I can do each month.


My plan is to still be able to do some healing work each month. Since I will have much less time to do healings, I expect the available slots each month to fill up quickly. Anyone who has purchased a three or six session healing package will have priority for scheduling. 

 

When you contact me, please give me a brief explanation about why you want a healing. If you are in crisis, I will do my best to find a way to accommodate you as quickly as possible. 

 

Sorry for any inconvenience. If it is any consolation, part of my new book will be teaching you how to stay calm and grounded, no matter what is happening.

 

I would love to hear about your experiences with non-attachment.


One more thing—last night, I received a clear message from my Spirit Guides that it is time to buy extra water and food. I am not talking about a lot; just enough water and food to last you a few weeks in case you lose power. I suggest getting food that does not need to be cooked. This is not about extreme preparedness, but rather about being practical and ready for potential short-term situations. When I received this message, I asked for clarity. My Spirit Guides said something could happen fairly soon that will knock out power for many people.


Peace & Blessings,

Chloe


Special thanks to Pete Linforth from Pixabay for the beautiful image.


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Updated: Jan 21, 2025



Most people set intentions at the beginning of the year to improve their lives physically, emotionally, mentally, financially, and spiritually. Unfortunately, many people never implement their intentions. Changing your life takes time, effort, and dedication.


This past year, I had several lessons about honoring my Divine authentic truth. Through these challenges, I recognized that even though I have made lots of progress; I was still bumping up against agreeing to do things I did not want to do or were not for my highest good. Each time I would do something that was not in my best interest, I would feel physically ill or even create something like a bad fall to get my attention. I denied my authentic self the freedom of saying ‘no’ to things I intuitively knew were not good for me.


It is a common struggle for people to always honor their authentic selves. It can be scary to reveal your true self to others. I knew I was different for most of my life and would act accordingly. However, when I was younger, my inner critic would speak up and question why I was not like everyone else. Sometimes, I would give in to my inner critic and compromise my authentic self to fit in with other people’s views.


After I processed the fear of letting the world know about the deepest parts of my authentic spiritual life with the revelations I shared in my teaching memoir, I have not looked back. Since the release of the book, I have felt entirely transparent. It feels fantastic not to worry about what others think of me.


Last night, I found a box that I had not unpacked. Inside was a sweet list made by my son when he was 28-years-old, sharing what he loved about me. I don’t know about you, but as a parent, I never knew what he would remember or even choose for himself as an adult.


When I read his list, tears streamed down my face. His recognition and appreciation of so many of my authentic traits surprised me. I thought, “Wow. I had a much bigger impact on him than I thought.” Seeing all the important things to him as a child and an adult filled me with much love and gratitude.

I encourage you to make a vow to be more authentic and share your beautiful truth with the world.



My Son’s List of What He Loves About Me

  • I love your outlook on life.

  • I would love it if we could travel out of the country soon.

  • You remind me of lavender and sage.

  • If you want to, you can easily start over again at the destination of your choice.

  • I love hearing about your spiritual journeys.

  • Nobody sees things from a unique perspective like you do.

  • You inspire me to enjoy the smaller things in life.

  • I love having fun and spending time with you.

  • I am in awe of your overcoming and perceiving attitude in life.

  • You are great at meeting and striking up conversations with new people ALL the time.

  • I love hearing about your next adventure or project.

  • It makes my heart sing when you call me “your son that chose you.”

  • Your taste and style of music is cool.

  • You have the prettiest eyes!

  • I like your strong mindset and personality.

  • One of my favorite memories is the time we went to Mexico on the sleeper train.

  • You’ve taught me the gift of fun and how to overcome shyness.

  • You look and live a life so much younger than your age.

  • I am happy I inherited your outgoing personality and your winning smile.

  • It is so fun to go on adventures with you.

  • I love planning staycation days with you.

  • One of my favorite things is the sound of your voice when you are happy and enjoying life.

  • You always find the humor and laughter in life.

  • I treasure your encouragement to try new things and follow my dreams.

  • I would feel lost without your optimism.

  • Your ability to see a bigger, optimistic picture always amazes me.

  • Thanks for sharing your guidance with me.

  • You definitely win the “Coolest Mom of the Year” award.

  • I wish I had known you when you were my age.

  • I love how you are in tune with the messages of the Universe.

  • I hope to be as spiritually sound as you are someday.

  • “Spiritual” is the word I’d use to describe you if I could only use one word.



Wow! To be seen, heard, and understood by this amazing being I gave birth to 38 years ago is such a gift and a wonderful reminder to stay true to my authentic self.


It is a special gift to experience how people truly see you. When I read over my son's words, I was filled and surrounded with so much love. I encourage you to try this out with a friend or family member. You can both share what you love about each other. It would also make a great birthday gift. You don't have to make your list as long as my son's list -- even just sharing a few thoughts about what you think makes the person unique and special would be appreciated.


Like most families, our relationship has had its share of challenging ups and downs. Thank goodness my son always eventually got grounded and centered and showed up as the sweet and caring son who had waited until I was ready to have him come to Earth to be my son.


I know many people are estranged from their children. I want you to know there is always the possibility of reconcilation and connection. Be patient and shine the light.


The United States is facing a huge change on January 20, 2025. Hopefully, most of you used the time after the U.S. election to de-stress and find your balance. For those not happy with the election results, to navigate these next four years, we must remain present and mindful of everything. We may need more discretion on who sees our true selves.


May you enjoy the last few days of freedom as we know it before the new U.S. President takes office. I remind you that no matter how dark things get, the Light will ultimately prevail.


Please let me know if you would like help to adjust to the new U.S. administration or need an intuitive shamanic energy healing or a life coach session. I am here for you.


Peace & Blessings,

Chloe


Thanks to Gerd Altmann on Pixabay for the image

 
 
 
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